As candidates, one way or another you will experience the feeling of disappointment in your job search. Whether your application was rejected or you find out you didn’t get the job after an interview – we can all agree that disappointment is one of the worst feelings. Changing your mindset and your overall outlook can help you overcome these feelings. Here are some tips that can help you in handling job search disappointments:
Look at the positives
When we find ourselves in a position of feeling disappointed we go straight to the negatives. We criticize ourselves or the company, or the specific interviewer. We think of arbitrary reasons to make ourselves feel better. Next time, reflect on the positive moments. Maybe think about what you learned, what you enjoyed, anything that can be taken as a positive.
Stay Focused
Feeling disappointed often derails us from our job search. When it comes to job searching there is a certain type of focus that needs to be maintained. When you realize that the overall goal is more important than your emotions, it will ultimately lead to your success. Keep a focused mindset, and always go back to what your original plan was.
Let it go
When searching for a job we must always accept that there will be disappointment. We almost must train ourselves to realize that it is a feeling in life that will come up from time to time. And when it comes we need to be prepared to withstand it. Rather than succumbing to disappointment, have your moment – whether it’s an hour, or a day. Take the moment to feel the way you feel and just let it go and push forward. Nothing kills motivation and success faster than when you let your emotions get the best of you.
We must all accept that disappointment is a part of life and we can’t control when it comes up. What we can control is ourselves, and how we handle it. Don’t succumb to the disappointment, learn from it, rise above it and have your success.
